宝茱姐为达浪流的泪（杨丞琳的哭戏）

知道达浪结婚后，宝茱姐带着悲伤的心情回到他们曾经一起念书的地方，想要彻底的忘记她寻找了三年的林达浪。

宝茱姐对着躺在病床上的达浪说话。/  达浪醒来后，无缘无故失踪，宝茱姐顿时觉得慌乱。

重心再看一次，还是哭了。丞琳，不管你有没有得奖，在我心目中，你已经是最佳女主角。

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再具體的夢境   也只是一個人的緊張
於是    我堅持自己什麼都   沒有講
只偷偷的在腦海裡    很細節很細節的   收藏
手寫的觸感   卻如欲望   輕劃過紙上
終於   白紙黑字的寫下這幾行 
我不願承認的   對妳的   種種   想像

《個 性》

關於聽覺   它與潛意識是同一種世界
就像婚約並不能單方面的  填寫
習慣橫行的蟹   不是直線泅游的魚所能   了解

《道 歉》

那份量太沉重的道歉   將過去擠壓成明信片
郵票的鋸齒邊   不斷在切割我曾依賴你的   那些畫面 
親愛的   我是真的寄不出一張   完整的  立體的  笑臉

《我想也是》

在電線桿上  不是很明顯的位置
那暗戀自行排列出一段  不是很完整的句子
心悸  思念  傻笑  堅持  以及吞吞吐吐的表示
驟然間一句   我們根本不合適
入夜後   路燈的碎玻璃   都帶刺

方文山　执笔

Nottinghill

♥I’m also just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her…♥

My favourite movie ever. Julia Robert looks so gorgeous in it. Who says wide-mouthed girl not pretty… Hahahaha…

The theme song is also one of my favourites. How I wish I can find the love like the lyrics sung.

When You Say Nothing At All (Ronan Keating)

It’s amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word you can light up the dark
Try as I may I can never explain
What I hear when you don’t say a thing

The smile on your face let’s me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes saying you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all

All day long I can hear people talking out loud (oh…)
But when you hold me near (oh, hold me near)
You drown out the crowd (drown out crowd)
Try as they may, they can never define
What’s been said between your heart and mine

The smile on your face let me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes saying you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all…oh

Oh, the smile on your face let’s me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes saying you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all

You say it best, when you say nothing at all
You say it best, when you say nothing at all
(The smile on your face)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all
(The truth in your eyes)
(The touch of your hand)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all
(Let me know that you need me)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)

Food for Thought

Source: Skywriter

Do you need to ‘Better Yourself’

I had a conversation with my sister while I was at my parents’ for Christmas, and I wanted to pick up on something which she said to me and explore it here, because I suspect it’s an issue for a lot of people. She started at Cambridge University last October, and just like I did when I was at the same stage, she feels under pressure to live up to all those around her.

We had a long chat on Christmas day: she told me “I don’t want to better myself” and I know completely what she means. And actually, I agree. (And she doesn’t need to. She can’t see it how her big sister does, but she’s a beautiful, funny, clever and very talented young woman.)

If you’ve ever felt under pressure to make new year’s resolutions because your friends were; if you feel guilty because your partner works longer hours than you and is constantly talking about doing more; if you read what everyone’s up to on Twitter and feel that you should have the same drive or determination; if you get a nagging feeling that you’re not supposed to be simply content with who you are and what you do … this post is for you.

You Are Enough

Firstly, I want to make it very clear that – whatever state your life is currently in – you are enough. Deep down, you are a fundamentally good, interesting, creative person. There are people who love you and value you. Each day, you already have the ability to make someone’s life a little brighter.

I feel that some personal development advice can be aimed at turning you into a different person. That’s not how it should be. By growing and developing, you become more yourself – not less. If you find yourself trying to follow a path which leads you missing the spontaneity or the joy or the fun of the “old you”, stop. Don’t try to turn yourself into a carbon copy of your best friend, or someone who you admire.

With all your imperfections and flaws, you’re still a lovable and wonderful person. If you’re impatient at times, is that simply the flip side of your desire for action and your dislike of procrastination? If your house is untidy, is that because you – rightly – focus your attention on things which matter more to you? If you never manage to stay in touch with old friends, is that because you’re good at embracing the present moment?

You are not a dress shirt that needs every wrinkle ruthlessly ironed out. You are a warm, snuggly jumper, loved not in spite of but because of your loose threads, your crumpled bits, your huggable qualities.

Your Happiness Matters

I know I mentioned this recently, but I wanted to bring it up again because I think it’s so important – and so easy to ignore or sweep aside.

Your happiness matters. Seriously, it does. I find that hard to accept myself: it might be an oldest sibling thing, but I’ve spent a lot of my life worrying about keeping everyone else happy. I often find it incredibly hard to figure out what I really want just for me.

It’s good to be happy. It’s right to pursue the things which you find enjoyable and fulfilling – even if those things seem silly or trite in the eyes of the people around you. If you’re perfectly happy, thank-you-very-much, with your chocolate habit or your penchant for a good stiff drink at 5pm, or your weekend mornings spent curled up under a duvet … then who the hell am I, to tell you that you should change?

I’m not saying that your adventures will always be easy – sometimes, a deep happiness means working through some less-than-pleasant moments. But, if you are perfectly happy with who you are and what you do, don’t force yourself to change things just because your friends or your parents or the folks you look up to do it differently.

Being Content is Good!

Of course, it’s great to grow and develop; that’s pretty much what AliVentures.com is all about. But it’s also great to learn to be content. At some times of your life in particular, you’ve got enough going on without trying to force yourself to do something more.

If you’re a student, like my sister is, it’s fine just to work towards your degree. You don’t need to feel pressured to join up to every extra-curricular event going, or to keep up with your music, or to start a business or write a novel or run a marathon. Cut yourself some slack, keep your goals to the bare minimum – getting your degree – and make sure you’re doing what you love during your time at university.

I experienced this first-hand five or six years ago, when I was at the same stage as my sister. There were days when I told myself “I should work harder”, when I looked at friends who were getting Firsts and thought that I should push myself to do the same.

After a couple of days of that, I realised that it was making me miserable. I wasn’t reading and studying because I enjoyed it – I was doing it because I felt I had to.

I took a look at my priorities, at what I really wanted from my time as a student. I wanted to enjoy it. I wanted to have time to simply have fun.

It was one of the happiest periods of my life.

There is a sense, sometimes, that if you’re content, you’re a bad person: you should keep on striving, struggling, growing, doing. Actually, it’s fine just to be. It’s good to be content. It’s good to enjoy your life with the money that you have – rather than feeling the pressure to keep working for more. It’s good to have fun hanging out with your friends – rather than feeling you have to go and get a boyfriend or a girlfriend. It’s even good, dare I say it, to kick back and watch television, rather than force yourself to read an “improving” book.

Sure, read the book if you love reading. (I do.) But don’t feel you have to.

You get one life. This is it. If you’re not going to enjoy it, then what’s the point?

Meany Xiaozhu!

Huang Jinglun so poor thing… His forehead looks really painful. Xiaozhu is so mean him.

1:05 赢一点有什麽关系啦？反正你钱那么多。Oops!

1:33 Xiaozhu gets hysteric AGAIN! 就像小孩嘛你！呵呵！

Video Credits: faloveshow3

 

Orchard Flooded!!!

Aiyo… Orchard also can flood?? 

Elva is Xiaozhu’s dish :)

0:22 Deliberately ask this kind of question to make Elva shy… Heehee! 是你让Elva难看吧！！！！ 

0:28 Den you should try it! No objections, I’m all for it! :)

小猪为男人平反！好笑！

相貌堂堂，电脑很强。这句好笑！小鬼厉害哦！
哈哈哈哈。。。

女生劈腿劈得开，还劈得很远。小猪，你是有被劈过吧 :p

1：42 小鬼说得蛮对的，男人比较不会察言观色，女人比较敏感啊。

Remember you must Die

I saw this meaningful entry from Nat Ho’s. blog. Thought I share with everyone.

Memento Mori is a Latin phrase which translates to “Remember You Must Die”.

Too many people fear Death. They fear it because it is Unknown.

But Death places everything in perspective.

If you knew Death would come for you the next month, the next week or the next day… would you still do the things you’re doing? Would you be working just for the sake of working? Would you be idling your time away? Would you forsake your family for a night of drunken pleasure? Would you partake in office gossip? Would you be bothered by what people gossip about you?

Would you Dance with every waking moment you have left? Would you Love with everything you have left? Would you seek to Accomplish everything you’ve always wanted to do before your time expires?

This Answer, only You know.

When you are Young, you think you have all the Time in the World. You think you will live Forever.

But Time is a stealthy thief that will rob you of your Lifeforce, bit by bit, every moment, every second.

Apathy will assimilate you into the Living Dead that is characteristic of Modern Society.

Only when you Acknowledge the ever-present possibility of Death, can you begin to Live with everything you’ve got.

Why sweat the small stuff?

Remember your Mortality.
Remember you must Die.

And then you will wake up into your New Life.

Memento Mori.

Actually, he’s the only male artiste that I ‘quite like’ in MediaCorp, too bad he has left. Sometimes, I would watched his drama ‘With You’ at 9pm (quite a nice show compared to other mediacock production). I think his acting and chinese improved. Oh, and Rui En is definitely 实力派！  Adrian Pang and Chen Hanwei are old ginger, need say more?

Fan-Made MV for Show & Rainie

If you like Show and Rainie, you can go to this youtube channel. I think she makes pretty nice MVs for them.

This is one of them which I like…

2:27    坐下来也可以跌倒啊 嘻嘻。。。